“I like not only to be loved, but to be told I am loved.” ~T.S. Elliot
If you are visiting today from Proverbs 31 Ministries, welcome friends! So glad you're here.
Not long ago, I was strolling the coffee menu at a local shop with my eyes. She nearly missed my line of sight. Red buttons clicked and clattered for release from their basket she held. Their ransom from captivity was paid in a story shared by the woman holding their prison.
Cold metal buttons and her words bestowed truth.
"He waded in gloomy belief he was unlovable. Until one day he scooped up his courage. He asked her on a date. Days, months, a year passed. He kept asking. She kept saying yes.
Yet lingering in the dark places of his heart was the fear he wasn't loveable. Until... Until he asked her to marry him. And. She. Said. Yes.
He ran into the streets. He shouted from the rooftops. He beamed,
'
I am loveable. I. AM. LOVED.'"
So pleased was he, he had buttons made to share the good news!
He was Barnett Helzberg Jr., president of Helzberg Diamonds. Riches dripped. Gold oozed. Diamonds literally fell from his fingers. Yet without knowledge,
sure knowledge he was loveable, he was unsatisfied, unwhole, uncomplete.
Love is a quirky thing. Our hearts crave it. Need it. Engineered to respond to it. Yet often we shun it. Scorn it. Refuse or hide from it when it's offered. Why?
I think it's a defense. Have you been told or felt you are not worth loving? Perhaps your dad abandoned his parental duty to love you. Your husband broke his vow to love only you. A best friend cast venom on sisterly love.
Maybe your weight, your singleness, your friend
lessness, your {fill in the blank} casts a chilly shadow void of warm love. Doors of your heart shut and you think, "I won't be that vulnerable to love ever again."
Mr. Helzberg's story is sweet, but he remained in the cold lies if he did not
embrace the truth of One Love. We do too.
Our heart must accept what our mind knows: No matter what you've done... or what's been done to you... You are loveable because Love called
your name before you was born. Love delicately
formed you in your mother's womb. Love left His throne for
a cross. Love lifted
the stone and
the curse and you from
the pit.Why?
Because He loves you. Because you are loveable.
Because He says so, He thinks so, He feels so.
Friend, my driver's side visor is pinned with this truth, "I am loved." A reminder wherever I go: I am loveable. A reminder for anyone who journeys in my passenger seat.
But an invisible reminder written on my heart is more precious, more valuable, more eternal. It's the very Word of God. Can I encourage you... will you do something for me,
for you, this month?
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Will you post a note that says, "I am loved" in your car or home or office? And then, will you write one of these verses per week on the tablet of your heart? You are loveable. But don't take my word for it...Take His.
Week 1: Jeremiah 31:3, The LORD appeared to us in the past, saying: 'I have loved you with an
everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness.'
Week 2: Psalm 86:12-13, I will praise you, Lord my God, with all my heart; I will glorify your name forever. For great is
your love toward me; you have delivered me from the depths.
Week 3: Psalm 94:18-19, When I said, “My foot is slipping,” your
unfailing love, LORD, supported me. When anxiety was great within me, your consolation brought me joy.
Week 4: Numbers 14:18, The LORD is slow to anger,
abounding in love and forgiving sin and rebellion.
Thanks again for joining us! We've been jumping off the train of negative thoughts. Care to join us? Catch up by
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xoxo, Sam
p.s. you can pick up a free "I am Loved" pin at Helzberg stores. AND you can order 3 free
"You are Loved" pins here!